Frequently Asked Questions

Everything you need to know

We've compiled answers to the most common questions about our wedding day. If you can't find what you're looking for, please don't hesitate to reach out!

💒 Ceremony & Schedule

What time should I arrive? +
Please arrive by 12:15 PM to find your seat. The ceremony will begin promptly at 1:00 PM.
Will the ceremony be indoors or outdoors? +
The ceremony will be held in the beautiful St Peters Church in Firle Village.
What time does the reception end? +
Carriages will be from 11:30 PM, bring your dancing shoes!

👔 Dress Code & Attire

What is the dress code? +
As a day of celebration and joy, we want to see colour and everyone is comfortable. Please note high heels may be unadvised due to softer ground surfaces at time with grass pathways between locations on the Firle Estate.

👥 Guests & Plus Ones

Can I bring a plus one? +
Due to venue capacity, we're only able to accommodate guests specifically named on your invitation. If you received a plus one, their name will be listed. Please check your invitation or contact us if you're unsure.
Are children welcome? +
We love your little ones, but we've decided to make this an adults-only celebration to allow all our guests to relax and enjoy the evening. We hope this gives you a wonderful excuse for a night out!
What's the difference between day and evening guests? +
Day guests are invited to the ceremony, reception dinner, and evening celebrations. Evening guests are invited to join us from 8:00 PM onwards for cocktails, dancing, and wonderful evening food! Your invitation will specify which you're invited to.

🚗 Travel & Accommodation

Where should I stay? +
We recommend The Alfriston South Downs, where we're also hosting a pre-wedding BBQ on September 4th. See our Details page for more accommodation options.
Is there parking at the venue? +
Yes, there is parking available at Firle Place. However, we encourage guests to arrange designated drivers or use taxi services if you plan to enjoy the bar!
Will there be transportation provided? +
We're arranging shuttle service from The Alfriston South Downs to the venue. Details will be sent with your RSVP confirmation. For other hotels, we recommend booking a taxi or arranging shared transportation with other guests. This is not an uber friendly location, very much 'in the sticks', so please pre book taxi's to avoid being stuck on the day, we will be arranging several taxi's in the evening to be on site.

🍽️ Food & Drink

I have dietary restrictions. What should I do? +
Please let us know about any dietary requirements, allergies, or preferences when you RSVP. We'll make sure there are delicious options for everyone!
Will there be a vegetarian/vegan option? +
Absolutely! Please enter on the RSVP if you have specific dietary requirements and we will ensure this is accomodated for.

📸 Photos & Social Media

Can I take photos during the ceremony? +
We kindly request an unplugged ceremony - please put away phones and cameras during the ceremony itself so you can be fully present. Our professional photographer will capture all the special moments. Feel free to snap away during the reception!
Can I post photos on social media? +
We'd love for you to share your photos, and we will be creating a QR code to upload photos taken on the day, so we can have the joy of looking back on them.

🎁 Registry & Gifts

Do you have a gift registry? +
Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift! However, if you'd like to give something towards our honeymoon you can visit our registry page and we would be immensely grateful. Registry page.

☀️ Weather & Contingencies

What happens if it rains? +
Firle Place has beautiful indoor spaces that are equally stunning! We're keeping our fingers crossed for sunshine, but we're prepared for any weather.
What's the weather typically like in September? +
September in East Sussex is usually lovely, expect temperatures around 15-20°C with a mix of sun and clouds. We recommend bringing a light jacket or cardigan for the evening, just in case!

Still Have Questions?

We're here to help! If you have any questions that weren't answered here, please don't hesitate to reach out.

jamwedding2026@gmail.com